Amy, 39, describes a 20-year on-again, off-again relationship with a man she met at 17. Despite periods of distance and other partners, they've maintained contact. Recently, after a night together where intense feelings resurfaced, he has become distant, leaving her with 'whiplash' and anxiety. She feels deeply for him but is frustrated by his inconsistency, questioning how long she should continue this pattern.
Impact: High. This prolonged emotional entanglement consumes Amy's mental energy and causes significant anxiety, preventing her from moving forward or finding a stable relationship.
In the source video, this keypoint occurs from 00:03:27 to 00:10:10.
Sources in support: Amy (Caller)

